I am always right in my own mind, and it must be so. You are the same way. And so is everyone else.

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Here’s why I’m right

We are made that way. Each and every living thing seeks to survive. We possess life. I have a life–my life. It know it as me. I spend a lot of time making sure I’m OK. So do you.

One of the things I have to be OK with is the me that I am – my identity. OK=RIGHT.

It’s important to be OK with myself. To be right. And when I’m not OK, it’s NOT OK. OK?

Emotional safety mechanism takes over

Internal conflict is NOT OK. So, my built in self-correcting mechanism seeks to find a way for me to be OK within myself. My beliefs represent the pattern of the world that makes sense to me so that I’m OK.

When anyone challenges my beliefs, they upset my world, and that’s NOT OK. It’s an attack on my identity–me.

To be INPowered2 LEAD, I have to grasp the power of this fundamental truth.

To be OK. Listen to others explain their lives.

The Spirit of Leading podcast, Leadership podcasting, Garland McWatters Tulsa OK, podcasting, authorListen to this Spirit of Leading podcast I posted last year. Listen to Lead podcast.

My prescription is for more intense listening and seeking to understand and respect each and every individual for who they are at the moment. Because in their mind they are right and right on.

Listen and be
Garland McWatters, leadership development, leadership training, Dallas, Oklahoma City, Tulsa, Oklahoma

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